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Monica Traphagan
pigs are cute when they're clean.
Blue Canary
Snoopy: That,uh, thing you said about the uh cats and there relatives, On Oprah and stuff they alsways say INSANE people do that.
Jon Nailor
Snoopy- Remmeber your normal run of the mill human doesn't screw they're child. But, There are some sicko's inthe world. Homo Sapein is an animal, but an advanced animal.
Snoopy
I know. I know. I couldn't resist saying that. I've been thinking the weirdest things latley. I've heard of all sorts of things about that. I also have a Psychology book and have read about weird senerios where a lot of that sort of thing takes place. Also, sense you brought that up, Jon... ABout people being animals, just more advanced... Okay. At about three months, Mice are ready for reproduction, right? And they DO, trust me. (I'm NOT referring to Mouse himself, I had pet mice for awhile) Anyway... so, animals pretty much reproduce as soon as they're able. So, why can't humans do that? Why do we have to wait so long first? I know many answers to this, but I think if you put this as an option to have girls having babies when they're able as apposed to when society today says they can, I think most of the reasons why not that you throw at me would be different... Think about it.
:)
Jon Nailor
Elephants have to wait almost 23 year before they are able to have babies. It is all dependant on the species<sp> of animal, and climate. There are documented cases in S. America of 8 year old human girls having babies. As a man I would not know, but that sounds very uncomfortable. If I remmember right you are 15 or 16, by my limitted medical knowelge, you are still alittle young too. One has to remmember that having babies to early is more damaging to the body than having them later. The main reason is the body is not fully developed and child birth causes major changes.
Snoopy
I know. I guess you're right. But if a girl is ready, then... I duno. It's our culutre and all that moral stuff. You know? Oh, and I'm not planning anything wierd in case anyone's wondering. I have just thought of this type of thing a lot. I love babies and would like one of my own, but I can and WILL wait. :)
Monica Traphagan
ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.... this is not for me... I know nothin' of this topic
Snoopy
I know people do it all the time, I think it's sick when they're siblings or related closely, you know? Like I suppose fifth cousins would almost be alright, but... You really shouldn't get that close to your family, I don't think. Is that what you're asking, Freejack?
Jon Nailor
Fifth cousins are hardly Family. That is almost another species.
ZooKeeper
humans are almost another species.
ZooKeeper
me too. <snicker>
Freejack
i'm not sure what i was asking now... though why do people continue to do/think/perform acts/behaviours that are considered disturbed/wrong/immoral by society at large? are we supressing basic human nature? i certainly hope not but it is an interesting question... maybe that's what i was thinking before...
Snoopy
Hey, I have a few first cousins that could be another species... :)
Torch Song
Depends on which "society" you're thinking about, Freejack. There are any number of acceptable behaviors in our so-called Western Civilization that I consider truly uncivilized...
Bookworm
True TS. I often wonder if the word civilization is not applied wrongly to the western civilization. It so often appears to be totally uncivilized.
Snoopy
I like your <snicker> it fits the conversation well. :)
ZooKeeper
bw -- most "civilizations" would appear so if we really knew all the details of them.
Bookworm
True ZK. But I still have to wonder.
ZooKeeper
feel free to wonder. it's the one thing they haven't figured out how to tax yet.
Freejack
yea, TS i was basically thinking american society in general...
but, true enough... my own behaviour may be unacceptable to many...
and i'm a first-rate citizen in general... heh heh.
ZooKeeper
so much of any civilization is totally barbaric...
Diakonos
"So much" and "totally" don't agree. I don't see our civilization as totally or even mostly barbaric.
Bookworm
Diakonos- I think she meant "so much" as facets and "totally" refering to each facet that is barbaric.
Torch Song
I'm not talking about individuals. There are just too many parts of our so-called culture that just do too much damage... What kind of civilization can be built by wounded people? And yet we keep trying to cram each other into ill-fitting, unrealistic molds simply because the molds are easier to deal with than REAL people who think and feel and defy categories.
ZooKeeper
*I* didn't say totally... I'm not sure I'd agree about not mostly, depends on the day and the mood I guess. But damn sure a lot is.
Torch Song
Yes, bw... too many parts are unacceptably cruel... and I keep finding more of them than facets that fit MY idea of civilized...
ZooKeeper
what TS said.
Bookworm
I know what you mean TS.
Blain Nelson
Civilization is based on laws, rules, and manners. When those are ignored, civilization fails.
But, again, remember that when you are creating civilization, you are not creating paradise or eutopia.
Diakonos
I guess it goes back to what's going on in that "other room" where I said people see what they expect to see. I choose to see good and beauty around me and that is what I see. I don't have my head in the sand, but this kind of depressed mindset snowballs.
Blain Nelson
It takes a little more looking sometimes, but it is in fact there -- the good stuff that is. And sometimes you just need to see that it's there so you don't forget and get overwhelmed by the icky stuff that is also in fact there.
Bookworm
Diakonos- sometimes we don't have a choice in what we see.
Jon Nailor
And how about a civilation with too many rules/laws/manners? Do you know how many Federal laws, codes, and regulations there are? Just this year, 1994, over 3000 new ones were enacted by our Congress. Remmember ignorance of the law is not a defence.
Torch Song
Yup...no choice at all sometimes in what is seen, heard, or felt...
Disorienting, to say the least
(even if it is occasionally useful)
Diakonos
Eeegads! Or is it Gadzooks! I just don't agree. There are choices. If the "scenery" is not what I want, I can go elsewhere. That may not be an easy choice, but it is a choice I have at my disposal. It is like the battered women syndrome where she keeps returning to the abusive relationship because she feels like there is no other choice. Well there is! No one is saying it is an easy choice, but it is nonetheless there. GET OUT!
Diakonos
BTW, I just talked to such a gal today so that is why the example was so fresh in my mind.
Bookworm
But what if there is a reason you have to stay?
Blain Nelson
Diakonos -- When I come over with the OLB for you (sometime between now and Judgment Day) I'll bring over some DV material that I think will help when that sort of thing happens again.
Diakonos
Bookworm - For example?
Torch Song
Diakonos, I hear what you're saying, but I just am not up to the involved explanations it would take right now to explain that I was saying something entirely in a different area...suffice for now that our worlds are not the same, okay?
One reason you have to stay, even if you don't want to: You're needed enough that leaving would be wrong.
Bookworm
For example- What if it is the area you live or work in but can not afford to leave? I have been in that circumstance a couple of times. Sure there are good things but there are places that the bad outweighs the good. If you don't agree that is fine but I have to go with my experiences.
ZooKeeper
many women stay because if they left they would die. Certainly it is a risk that if they stay they will die, but that is less certain and less immediate.
and dammit, I'm tired of running around looking over my shoulder!
as far as what TS and I were talking about, it's not as physical as seeing with your eyes, it is a far different kind of "knowing" and seeing... and it's less directable and less escapable. it just is. sometimes it's good, more often, far more often, it hurts.
LITTLE MERMAID
No longer (Fuming) upset at the silly things people think and leave behind.... "To err is human , To be human is Devine''
Bookworm
I hear that ZK!
Blain Nelson
Jon -- ignorance of the law has been a defense in this country for more than a decade. Too many laws is a bad idea. Disregarding all laws is an equally bad idea.
Torch Song
Jon Nailor -- yep. Barbaric, isn't it?
And the worst parts aren't the *written* laws, etc.
The worst are all those carved-in-stone, unwritten, societal expectations.
Bleah.
ZooKeeper
do you know when some of those laws date to? or what they are?
I guess they finally repealed the law forbidding women to wear skirts that had hemlines above their ankles, just a few years ago...
Blain Nelson
The societal expectations do need some review. Like the ones that say that men have to be completely autonomous and able to handle whatever problems arrive and fix them. And the ones that say that women have to be supportive of their husbands and that their identity is dependent upon their husbands. And that people have to be perfect unless they are you or a personal friend and then what they do isn't really wrong because they're just good folks.
Those, among others, could use a little work.
LA REINE
but i am perfect. didn't you get the memo?
Blain Nelson
Ah. So you're still in denial I see.
Jon Nailor
Blian- Agreed, But there are far too many useless and down right low laws on the books. Most of them could be viewed as Harassment. Like you missed calulated you're taxes by 1 dollar. Do you know that the IRS can come after you 10 years later and take you to court for $1500+. And they will win if you do not know how to prove they are illegally harassing you.
ZooKeeper
no she's not, she's perfect! :>
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